So, you’ve popped the question, and your partner said "Yes!" Congratulations! Now, it’s time to kick back, relax, and let your fiancé handle all the wedding planning, right? Wrong! (Insert wake-up call here.) While flowers, decor, and venue arrangements might not feel like your thing, the truth is that wedding planning takes two. This is your love story too, and now is the perfect opportunity to get involved. Whether it’s compiling guest lists or choosing the right groomsmen gifts, your contribution will go a long way—and trust us, your partner will appreciate it.
We teamed up with Mike from Groomsday Groomsmen Gifts to share essential tips for grooms on how to make the wedding planning journey smooth, fun, and memorable. Buckle up, gents—it’s time to get wedding-ready!
1. Take the Lead on the Guest List
Finalizing the guest list is one of the first major steps in wedding planning, and it can be surprisingly time-consuming. Tracking down addresses, salutations, and RSVPs is no small task, and this is where you can step in. Handle the guest list logistics if picking flower arrangements isn't your thing—it’s an easy way to contribute while easing some of the load off your fiancé.
Pro tip: Don’t forget to include both sets of parents when compiling the list to make them feel involved in the process. A little teamwork goes a long way!
2. Polish Those Dance Moves
Not feeling comfortable on the dance floor? Now’s the time to change that. A well-prepared first dance makes for one of the most memorable moments of any wedding. Consider taking a dance class together, or surprise your partner with a solo dance routine you’ve been practicing on the side. Not only will it calm your wedding-day nerves, but it’s also a fun way to spend time together leading up to the big day.
And hey, even if you don’t nail every move, your effort will mean the world to your partner—and that’s what counts.
3. Pick Out Groomsmen Gifts
Your groomsmen play an essential role, supporting you every step of the way during both the wedding planning and the ceremony. Show your appreciation with thoughtful, personalized gifts. Whether it’s sleek watches, engraved cufflinks, or custom whiskey sets, the options are endless.
"Choosing the right gift shows your gratitude and makes your friends feel appreciated,” says Mike from Groomsday Groomsmen Gifts. "Our shop offers everything from sports-themed items to fashion-forward accessories, making gift selection quick and easy."
Need ideas? Visit Groomsday’s Pinterest board for hundreds of creative options.
4. Style Your Wedding-Day Look
Just like your partner is thinking about dresses and hairstyles, your wedding look matters too. Start early by choosing a suit or tuxedo that matches the event’s vibe—whether it’s a relaxed beach ceremony or a black-tie affair.
Pay attention to details such as cufflinks, bow ties, tie clips, and pocket squares to elevate your look. And don’t forget—fit is everything. Schedule fittings in advance to ensure everything looks sharp and feels comfortable.
5. Write and Practice Your Vows
Your vows are more than just words—they are the foundation of your future together. Take time to write vows that reflect your personality and relationship. A dash of humor is always a great addition, but make sure the sentiment comes from the heart.
“Practice your vows aloud a few times,” Mike advises. “It helps them feel natural when you deliver them on the big day.” Stand in front of a mirror and get comfortable with the words—this will help with nerves and ensure your emotions come through.
6. Plan the Honeymoon
Traditionally, the groom takes the lead on honeymoon planning, and it’s still a great way to show you care. While most couples decide on the destination together, surprise your partner with special touches like a romantic dinner reservation or an exciting local experience.
Make sure you plan the logistics—travel, accommodations, and activities—so your fiancé can sit back and relax once the wedding festivities wrap up. After all, the honeymoon is the perfect way to unwind after months of planning.
Final Thoughts: Step Up, Enjoy the Process, and Make It Memorable
While wedding planning might feel a little outside your comfort zone, the truth is that your involvement matters. Even if your role is behind the scenes—organizing the guest list, learning a dance move, or picking out groomsmen gifts—it will make a difference in the end. The most important thing? Enjoy the process. Weddings are meant to be fun, and planning together is a wonderful way to connect and share the excitement of your big day.
"The key is to see this as a joint effort,” Mike shares. "You don’t have to do it all, but stepping up where you can makes your partner feel supported—and that’s priceless."
So, gentlemen—suit up, step in, and make this wedding a reflection of both of you. The effort you put into planning now will create memories that will last a lifetime.
Check Out Groomsday for Groomsmen Gift Ideas
Looking for inspiration for groomsmen gifts? Visit Groomsday’s official website or explore their curated Pinterest board for creative and personalized options.
Photo Credits: Photography by City Savvy Imaging
Guest Blog Post by: Groomsday Groomsmen Gifts
Helping grooms plan and prepare for the big day, one gift at a time
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